The world of real estate has always held a fascination for folks like me. But things have a way of getting really strange when people who don’t spend their waking, working moments around the mayhem and milieu of the brokerage world start telling astounding tales about their recent ‘encounters’ in real estate country.
Over the past month, I’ve had several conversations which would have been considered ‘beyond bizzare’ just a few short years ago. Folks talking about people they know walking out the door of their homes and just giving the home back to the bank as casually as they might refer to a decision to perhaps purchase a car.
I know you might be thinking at a cursory reading that this reckless attitude is just symptomatic of the chaos that has been the hallmark of so much recent madness, but often during these exchanges, I actually sensed something else. As I listen intently, the story involves so much more than initially stated. There’s an underlying, increasingly recognizable sad thread.
The bundle of trial includes years of struggle, trying to find jobs, being laid off, piling up debt to survive,ravaging investment accounts, pulling home equity out to last just a little longer, and then the straw that breaks the camel’s back occurs…one more thing that could not be anticipated which tips the scales.
Absolute & total weariness…and with resources strained beyond measure, it seems that the only thing to do is …WALK AWAY. But before you do…
Before your feet set in motion a chain of events which will potentially impact your life for the NEXT DECADE, please consider ALL your options. TALK to someone. I’m astounded by the number of people who go through the ENTIRE Foreclosure process without talking to ANYONE about their options.
You do have OPTIONS. Before making a decision to simply stop attending to your obligations, ASK someone for help. Speak to an Attorney, contact a Real Estate Broker or your Mortgage Lender. Preferably, engage with all three sources or more… Information is power when it comes to a decision which can handicap not just your ability to get a new home, but your ability to have a measure of control over your financial life for the foreseeable future.
Just for Starters, Ask about the following:
Will your bank accept a Deed in Lieu of Foreclosure AND forgive your debt in it’s entirety?
Can you pursue a Short Sale?
What are your options for Loan Modification?
What are your legal options and obligations?
An old African Proverb reminds us that “No Condition is Permanent in this world.” Remember this truth…especially when things are tough. This too shall pass…eventually.
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